Archive for Tag: #salespsychology

The “let me think it over” trap: why it’s a red flag, not a green light

A “let me think it over” likely means you didn’t close the gap between their problem and your solution. Go back. “That’s ok. To help you do so, let’s review the main points we discussed.“ This simple action serves two purposes: It helps you retrace your steps and pick the ball where you inadvertently dropped

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Use the power of reframing as a catalyst for your sales success

Just by changing the frame of a picture, you make it look different. Try it. Easier still, watch the same video on your phone, in landscape then portrait- it’s a completely different experience. And that’s what reframing is. In sales it means getting the customer to see the same thing in a different frame of

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Get your salespeople off the path of least resistance

Salespeople default to the path of least resistance. The easy path. It’s in their nature. Internalizing this sales psychology is critical to business owners and sales managers. Especially given that, in the quest to solve this challenge, the tendency is to throw money at it. “We will just increase the commissions,” you’ll hear it said.

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Successful selling is a friendship…with benefits

Chances are that marketing has already made the buyer attracted to the possibility of a friendship. But selling is a friendship with benefits. What she now wants to know is, “What benefits accrue with the friendship?“ To begin with, it’s not about your product. It’s never about your product. And just so we are clear,

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Bridge the gap: understand what buyers mean, not say

It is the seller’s job to remove the jagged edges in communication, creating a warmer relationship with the buyer and making the sale easier. Custoommunication is a complicated thing. Even when you correctly hear what the other person said, it may not be what they meant. Effective customer communication means learning to decipher the meaning

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What Valentine’s Day teaches us about selling

With intense emotion fused into the day, logic is suffocated, need becomes craving, and price is deemed irrelevant Valentine’s Day selling teaches powerful lessons. Learn how emotion, preparation, and understanding pressing needs can transform your sales approach. Pause. This is a sales column, not a relationship one, so let me stick to the point. What

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Make buyers feel understood by centering the sale around them

Make the sale about the buyer, not you. It’s never about you anyway…. Once the buyer feels understood, proceed to show him why what he wants is not feasible “I’m selling handkerchiefs. Please buy one. I’m selling them to raise money for my child’s fees.“ So the lady hawker said. Would you buy? Hold that

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Putting buyers’ interest first puts you in a scoring position

Put buyers first. Fighting to be in a scoring position to do this, may mean letting go of sales sometimes. Which is fine if that was the only way to assist the buyer get what he needs. “Always fight to be in a scoring position.” So, a Director of Business Development reader friend of mine

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How to successfully close a sale: lessons from daily experiences

Today, we address the ways how to successfully close a sale borrowing from everyday experiences.Closing a sale in business, is getting commitment to to buy. The importance of closing the sale cannot be gainsaid. It’s the whole purpose of selling. Not closing the sale is like playing football and not scoring. Here’s how you close

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Benefits sell features tell. Here’s why

Benefits sell features tell. A guide to emotional selling. Why do you dress?” I usually ask participants during my workshops. Almost always, there’s an awkward silence, with participants wondering the absurdity of the question; and then the answer follows to rub home the queerness of my question. “To cover our nakedness, of course!” “Really?” I

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